by audreyk » 11 May 2012, 23:06
Hi Everyone,
I think I need to respond to this and I’ll try my best to answer all the points raised, so please bear with me. Here goes …
First of all, please don’t blame Jet MW. She wanted to help the Fund and she was keen to pursue this idea only after reading many very positive comments that had appeared on Facebook. These included quite a few comments from people wanting to know if they could purchase the beer. She only asked for people’s views and you have given them to her! It helps to hear people opinions – thank you.
Secondly, I should make it clear that there was never any question of the landlord of The Queen Inn raising funds for the Memorial Fund as an on-going venture. He organised this as a small, local, one-off event.
Iain is absolutely correct. This is a small pub whose landlord and son brewed a new beer that was sold from casks at a very small beer festival. Logistically, it would never be viable to produce it in bottles, distribute it, etc etc. Even if it were possible (which I’m sure it isn’t) – the landlord would never do this as a fundraising exercise.
From the point of view of the Memorial Fund and ethics, I should clarify that, although Janet and I are the “public face” of the Fund, there is a team responsible for the management of the Fund and we liaise extensively with Cancer Research UK who have been made aware of this fundraising event.
To give you a little background information about this, please do not imagine that this was our idea!! The first that I knew about it was less than a week before the event took place, by which time the beer had been brewed (and named), the brochures had been printed and press releases had been sent out. Of course I had some misgivings – that goes without saying!!! However, there was little that I could do about it, and, as the landlord of the pub was a friend of Jet’s, I decided to keep an open mind.
Jet and Janet used to visit this pub, The Queen Inn in Winchester, where the Beer Festival was held. I fully understand the feelings of those who knew Jet throughout his battles with alcoholism – but - in later life Jet did not need to be encouraged not to drink. He could be in a pub, or around people who were drinking and he would remain completely uninterested in the alcohol. This was one of the reasons that I wrote publicly that I had such respect for Jet.
Clive, the landlord of the pub, knew that Jet always drank coffee in the pub. Therefore, he would not have related to Jet’s history in the same way as people who remember his past. Also, in the latter part of his life, Jet was very proud of having controlled the alcoholism and he would talk to anyone about this. So, I imagine that Clive and his son saw no problem in trying to help Jet’s Fund by selling their new beer at their annual Beer Festival. He would have seen this solely as a tribute to Jet and a fundraising idea. He made it clear in his brochure that Jet no longer drank.
As I said, obviously, we had concerns about the way this would be perceived and the connection with Jet’s history. However, Janet, Barry and I attended the Festival on the Saturday and I have to say that it was a really lovely evening. The event was great and was very well organised. Some people buying the beer didn’t care (or want to know) about the connection to ‘a celebrity’, but other people talked about Jet and they were very respectful of him and the music. The point is that this was a local event and many people knew Jet. Many people mentioned the fact that Jet had given up drinking and they didn’t seem to make any negative connection with the beer at all. In fact quite a few younger people stopped to talk about Jet, to ask about his music and to give donations. The event made £700 and, naturally, we are extremely grateful to all concerned.
From the point of view of the Memorial Fund, I was pleasantly surprised at the number of positive comments that came in following this event. However, I am absolutely certain that no one would want to cause any offence or distress and I have asked Janet to make sure that people’s concerns are fed back to the landlord.
Finally, I’m not normally comfortable with talking about personal things in public – but I do think I should respond to one more point that keeps getting raised. I have just stated that we would not want to cause any offence or distress, but I would respectfully ask that this is accepted as a two-way sentiment. Many people were of extreme importance to Jet throughout his life. For those of us who were very close to Jet in the final years, it was obvious that Jet’s life was like a jigsaw puzzle with different individuals each playing an important part. I was proud and privileged to be just one of those individuals.
Janet, Barry and I understand that we knew a very different Jet to earlier days. For one thing he was older!!! For another thing, for the last two years that we were with him, he knew that his cancer was incurable. During those years he had time to think about his life, to talk to us in depth about the past, about the alcoholism, about places that he had lived and the people whom he had known. He also talked about his fears and of certain personal things that were important to him in the final weeks of his life. It was Jet’s decision to entrust his estate to Janet and also he asked me to do certain things for him which I prefer to remain private.
We are trying to do our best to fulfill these promises - often in quite difficult circumstances. Sometimes we don’t get it quite right … but we’re human!!! Normally, we never mention these things out of respect for other people’s feelings, but please can I ask that we all treat each other with respect. Please can we all honour Jet’s memory and can we all be glad that we knew him. Thank you.
To return to the topic of the thread … there is no question of the landlord mass producing this beer. Regarding other fundraising - I was really pleased to read people’s positive suggestions about different ways of raising money for Jet’s Fund. The problem is not only ideas, but active help – so if anyone has the time and skills to take on any of the ideas that you have mentioned (and to work with us regarding the legalities etc) … we’d love to hear from you. Thank you.
With thanks and best wishes
Audrey